Arnulfo is gay

In this amazing interview with Arnie Vargas, we talk about relationship issues for gay men over 40. Today we are speaking with Arnie Vargas, psychotherapist and relationship coach from Cape May, NJ and Recent York City. Arnie has worked for 22 years with individuals and couples helping them with individual and partnership issues.  Arnie has been with the same partner for 16 years and practices what he preaches.

Click on the link below to listen to the audio interview.

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Important points:

1. Know why you are entering the relationship.
2. What are you looking to get out of a rendezvous and the relationship.
3. Have you ever had a successful relationship? If yes, can you apply a similar methodology?
4. Stop comparing yourself to your straight counterparts. Just because your friends are in a relationship, it doesn’t mean you include to have one right now.
5. Pay for dinner if you suggest the date.
6. Get rid of your laundry list and bring value into the relationship.
7. Younger people and the entitlement concept.
8. Fear of commitment.
9. Can an older person use his trial with a female
   
   

   When Pope Francis was elected last Rally, even doctrinally dissident Roman Catholics prefer me cut the former Argentine cardinal some slack. “I want to believe,” I wrote then, “that his history as an advocate for the underprivileged will bring him to see that today’s church is spending an inordinate amount of day, energy and ultimately moral credibility persecuting homosexuals, feminists and other ‘heretics,’ while it’s de-prioritizing its core Christian (and human) mission of compassion and redemption.”

   I think I made the right contact. In an interview that his fellow Jesuits published last week, the Pope seemed to respond the prayers of Catholics who are frustrated at seeing their faith increasingly defined by intolerant retro dogma. “We cannot insist,” Francis said, “only on issues related to abortion, gay marriage and the apply of contraceptive methods.” He criticized his church’s mania for “small-minded rules” and urged it instead to emulate Jesus’ emphasis on serving the indigent and unfortunate among us.

   Francis even clarified a remark he made over the summer regarding homosexuality — “If someone is gay and he searches for the Lord and has good will, who am I to judge?” ̵
   

   Offensive and Fabulous: TO MY GIRLS Offers Searing Critique of Gay Culture — Review

   Without planning it, this week I saw three shows in a row with all-male casts: Take Me Out, American Buffalo, and To My Girls. I guess the last few years of reckoning haven’t changed some things. While I absolutely effort with all-male shows (there are better ways to explore masculinity), JC Lee’s To My Girls, the only new work of the three, at least is comprised of entirely queer male characters, including several well-rounded characters of color, and all the actors and creative team members are queer.

   In To My Girls, playing at Second Stage’s Tony Kiser Theater, a group of friends rent a Palm Springs house for a weekend to reconnect after the pandemic. As someone who just went on a trip to Palm Springs last month, I was able to clock the spot-on kitchy aesthetic of the house that set designer Arnulfo Maldonado created and the true-to-fashion speedos and caftans costume designer Sarafina Bush clothed the boys in, as well as the perfectly-shady Palm Springs references.

   To My Girls is very specifically about gays in their late thirties, and while I don’t belong to said group, I possess
   

   Costa Rica election: Author Carlos Alvarado Quesada wins presidency with support for homosexual marriage

   The centre-left's Carlos Alvarado Quesada has defeated a conservative Protestant singer in Costa Rica's presidential runoff election by promising to allow gay marriage, protecting the country's reputation for tolerance.

   A former Minister and fiction writer, 38-year-old Mr Alvarado Quesada had 61 per cent of the vote with results in from 95 percent of polling stations, a far bigger lead than predicted by opinion polls that foresaw a tight race.

   "My commitment is to a Government for everybody, in equality and liberty for a more prosperous future," he told thousands of cheering supporters blowing horns and waving Costa Rica's red, white and sky flag.

   "There is much more that unites us than divides us."

   His rival, Fabricio Alvarado Munoz, a 43-year-old former TV journalist famous for religious dance songs, quickly conceded, sinking to his knees and raising his arms in front of supporters, some of who were crying.

   "We didn't win the election," he said, adding that he had congratulated his opponent in a telephone summon