How to male anal
Ever wanted to know the secrets to becoming a power bottom? Want to know how to gaze after the bottoms in your life? Curious to give bottoming a experiment but not sure how to begin?
We can assist you become a improved bottom! Here are some quick bottoming tips and tricks from ACON’s peer-workshop Booty Basics.
1. Lube
The arse does not produce its own lubrication.
This means that lube is really, really important for any anal play. First, to cease damage to the internal lining of your arse. Second, to make bottoming (and topping!) more pleasurable. And third, to assist protect it from infections.
Remember to use water or silicon-based lubes, as oil-based lubes can damage condoms.
2. You
The second principle is YOU. This is the one that covers off all the mental and emotional aspects such as making sure you touch safe, making sure there is consent, that you feel comfortable, that you know your own bottoming limits and desires.
Remember, sex is best for everyone if all the people involved are motivated by trying to maximise everyone’s pleasure safely. You can’t be a good boyfriend and you can’t life pleasure for yourself if you’re stressed or uncomfortable (bottom or not!).
3. Rel A Beginner’s Guide to Bottoming During Sex
FOR THOSE WHO bottom, it can be the ultimate operate of pleasure. But for some—regardless of if you are new to it, returning to the bottom bunk, or still trying your best to relish it—it can touch like an uncomfortable chore.
Just to clear up exactly what we’re walking about here: “bottoming” refers to entity a receptive loved one during anal sex. The bottom is the partner that is taking the penis or dildo inside of them, while the person who is the insertive partner is often referred to as a “top” or the person “topping.”
Verbiage aside, bottoming can generate a lot of people anxiety. I mean, it’s evident why: despite anal sex being completely normal, it’s rarely talked about. And in a earth where people are barely even taught about vaginal sex, there’s even less taught to people, regardless of sexuality, about the ins and outs of going in the backdoor.
The anus might get a bad rap, or a reputation that it’s more of an exit than an entrance, but that’s simply not true. Anal sex can be pleasurable, and being on the receiving finish can be blissful. (Hey, you can even have an anal orgasm!)
But, as with all things sex, while it is spontaneous
The 5 Rules of Anal Play for Straight Men
Anal sexYou've got questions? We've got answers! Safe and pleasurable anal play is all about following a few key rules.
Here’s the first, and most essential , rule about anal act for straight men: EVERYONE should talk about it without shame!
We're living in an age of sexual exploration that bear us so many opportunities move past damaging social stigmas to embrace our full sexual pleasure. And guys, trust this, anal play provides countless pleasures. Inside and out, the ass is a hotbed of sexual sensation that will have you moanin’, groanin’ and orgasaming prefer you never have before.
But, that first control, that we should all talk about straight guy butt fun? We actually need to call that rule 0. Because there are five more rules you and your partners need to know, realize, and embrace as you embark on your journey to anal pleasure.
Does having anal sex express I might be gay?
Before we get into the rules, let’s address the rainbow elephant in the room by debunking a common stigma.
Despite the fact that all kinds of folks, queer and not queer, have been having bum fun for centuries, harmful, misinformed ideas ha
Life on the Bottom
I enjoyed a short-lived career on the bottom. My college boyfriend’s family lived in a duplex on Park Way, where we’d often slip away on weekends. Meals were rich and plentiful — foie gras, profiteroles, double magnums of Riesling, etc. — all of which I eagerly imbibed. Following one such decadent feast my freshman year, when we were still very much in the honeymoon phase of our first gay relationship, Dan and I retired to his bedroom and got to work. For weeks we’d been easing into penetration with me on the bottom, but the pain had proven prohibitive. Also at play was acute paranoia of involuntary defecation, something I’d been assured was a common, yet unwarranted, concern of bottoms.
Presumably though, most surveyed hadn’t recently gorged on three helpings of fattened goose liver. It’s difficult to look someone in the eye after shitting their childhood bed — let alone date them for seven more years afterward — but that’s exactly what happened. What didn’t happen — and hasn’t since, really — was me back on the bottom.
• Read next: Bottoming Emojis, Explained
Maybe that’s why I’ve maintained an enviable respect for men and women who regularly get fucke
Everything You Need to Comprehend About the ‘Male G-Spot’
How do I find the male prostate?
You can boost the prostate internally or externally. You can extend it through the anus and find it 2 inches inside the rectum.
You can also encourage the prostate by touching the strip of skin between the scrotum and anus.
How far up is your prostate located?
The prostate is located about 2 inches inside the rectum.
Where is the male prostate on the outside?
You can stimulate the prostate from outside by body by touching the taint — the skin between the scrotum and anus.
The “male G-spot” may not be the official designation for the prostate, but it has the potential to live up to the hype with a little practice. Take things slow, communicate, and employ lots of lube to find and master the prostate.
Adrienne Santos-Longhurst is a freelance writer and author who has written extensively on all things health and lifestyle for more than a decade. When she’s not holed-up in her writing shed researching an article or off interviewing health professionals, she can be initiate frolicking around her beach town with husband and dogs in tow or splashing about the lake trying to master 
A Beginner’s Guide to Bottoming During Sex
FOR THOSE WHO bottom, it can be the ultimate operate of pleasure. But for some—regardless of if you are new to it, returning to the bottom bunk, or still trying your best to relish it—it can touch like an uncomfortable chore.
Just to clear up exactly what we’re walking about here: “bottoming” refers to entity a receptive loved one during anal sex. The bottom is the partner that is taking the penis or dildo inside of them, while the person who is the insertive partner is often referred to as a “top” or the person “topping.”
Verbiage aside, bottoming can generate a lot of people anxiety. I mean, it’s evident why: despite anal sex being completely normal, it’s rarely talked about. And in a earth where people are barely even taught about vaginal sex, there’s even less taught to people, regardless of sexuality, about the ins and outs of going in the backdoor.
The anus might get a bad rap, or a reputation that it’s more of an exit than an entrance, but that’s simply not true. Anal sex can be pleasurable, and being on the receiving finish can be blissful. (Hey, you can even have an anal orgasm!)
But, as with all things sex, while it is spontaneous
The 5 Rules of Anal Play for Straight Men
You've got questions? We've got answers! Safe and pleasurable anal play is all about following a few key rules.
Here’s the first, and most essential , rule about anal act for straight men: EVERYONE should talk about it without shame!
We're living in an age of sexual exploration that bear us so many opportunities move past damaging social stigmas to embrace our full sexual pleasure. And guys, trust this, anal play provides countless pleasures. Inside and out, the ass is a hotbed of sexual sensation that will have you moanin’, groanin’ and orgasaming prefer you never have before.
But, that first control, that we should all talk about straight guy butt fun? We actually need to call that rule 0. Because there are five more rules you and your partners need to know, realize, and embrace as you embark on your journey to anal pleasure.
Does having anal sex express I might be gay?
Before we get into the rules, let’s address the rainbow elephant in the room by debunking a common stigma.
Despite the fact that all kinds of folks, queer and not queer, have been having bum fun for centuries, harmful, misinformed ideas ha
Life on the Bottom
I enjoyed a short-lived career on the bottom. My college boyfriend’s family lived in a duplex on Park Way, where we’d often slip away on weekends. Meals were rich and plentiful — foie gras, profiteroles, double magnums of Riesling, etc. — all of which I eagerly imbibed. Following one such decadent feast my freshman year, when we were still very much in the honeymoon phase of our first gay relationship, Dan and I retired to his bedroom and got to work. For weeks we’d been easing into penetration with me on the bottom, but the pain had proven prohibitive. Also at play was acute paranoia of involuntary defecation, something I’d been assured was a common, yet unwarranted, concern of bottoms.
Presumably though, most surveyed hadn’t recently gorged on three helpings of fattened goose liver. It’s difficult to look someone in the eye after shitting their childhood bed — let alone date them for seven more years afterward — but that’s exactly what happened. What didn’t happen — and hasn’t since, really — was me back on the bottom.
• Read next: Bottoming Emojis, Explained
Maybe that’s why I’ve maintained an enviable respect for men and women who regularly get fucke
Everything You Need to Comprehend About the ‘Male G-Spot’
How do I find the male prostate?
You can boost the prostate internally or externally. You can extend it through the anus and find it 2 inches inside the rectum.
You can also encourage the prostate by touching the strip of skin between the scrotum and anus.
How far up is your prostate located?
The prostate is located about 2 inches inside the rectum.
Where is the male prostate on the outside?
You can stimulate the prostate from outside by body by touching the taint — the skin between the scrotum and anus.
The “male G-spot” may not be the official designation for the prostate, but it has the potential to live up to the hype with a little practice. Take things slow, communicate, and employ lots of lube to find and master the prostate.
Adrienne Santos-Longhurst is a freelance writer and author who has written extensively on all things health and lifestyle for more than a decade. When she’s not holed-up in her writing shed researching an article or off interviewing health professionals, she can be initiate frolicking around her beach town with husband and dogs in tow or splashing about the lake trying to master